By Dr. Tim Clinton
Do you have trouble sleeping? When you lay your head on your pillow at night does your mind continue to reel with thoughts of your day, things on your “to do list”, or problems that may or may not come to pass?
Kids smile an average of 45 times an hour, and they will “belly laugh” 1 time every 7.5 minutes. By the time we become an adult that drops to 15 times a day. In hospitals, it is nearly 0. When was the last time you had a good laugh?
It is important for men to recognize God’s calling on their lives and to have great expectations of what He will do. However, it is equally important to recognize that none of us can do anything worth doing without Him. When we attempt to accomplish God’s work, or even live the Christian life, apart from an authentic relationship with Him, we get burned out, frustrated, and fail. It amounts to religion without relationship. But God created us for relationship.
Mary Magdalene—A woman whose entire life and persona had been controlled and dominated by demonic activity. She battled not just one spirit of evil. She was consumed with seven, until one day, when she had a divine appointment with Jesus. “Mary, called Magdalene, from whom seven demons had gone out…” (Luke 8:2 ESV)
Leprosy. The most dreaded disease of his day. A visible outward malady that in reality defined who he was. Putrefying infected sores that in time caused loss of fingers, toes, nose. Everyone who came in contact with him saw the miserable condition he carried with him everywhere he went. There was no hiding it.
Many Christ followers understand this reality in their own journey. No doubt, many of you are living there right now.
At the start of the 1980 Winter Olympics in Lake Placid, N.Y., the U.S. hockey team was little more than an afterthought.
The Soviets were seeded No. 1, and deservedly so. They had won five gold medals and one bronze in the previous six Olympics.
The U.S. team was seeded seventh.
The Soviets unleashed 30 shots in the first two periods to the United States’ 10. One dramatic save after another by goaltender Jim Craig kept the U.S. team close. Mark Johnson scored with one second remaining in the first period to tie it at 2 all, but the Soviets led 3-2 after two periods...
The Hebrew word for heart in Proverbs 4:23 is soul—the seat of appetites, emotions, and passions—our core self. Whichever way you interpret it, we are to keep it “Above all else.” Why? Because how we choose to guard our hearts against the vain philosophies, corruption, and hardness of the world will determine the...
What do you think of when you read the following quote?
“A ship in the harbor is safe but that is not what ships are built for.”
-John A. Shedd
Perhaps it makes you think of a ship actually in a harbor. A fishing boat covered in barnacles, tied to the dock, floating and bouncing around on the water. Or maybe you think of the scene from Titanic where there is a great pan shop of the majestic vessel covered with people waving goodbye to
Jesus and His disciples had been invited to a wedding in Cana of Galilee where His mother was also a guest. The story in John chapter 2 begins with the dilemma of “when the wine ran out”
“Procrastination is like a credit card,” someone once said, “it's a lot of fun until you get the bill.” It also may be one of the enemy’s most effective tools in his assault on God’s children. So often we put off today what can be done tomorrow. The enemy uses schemes and tactics to ensnare us and distract us from doing God’s will for our life. He can use good things to distract us from even better things. We can’t afford to loose our focus or spend time on those things that don’t really matter.
“Prayer is self-discipline. The effort to realize the presence and power of God stretches the sinews of the soul and hardens muscles. To pray is to grow in grace. To tarry in the presence of the King leads to new loyalty and devotion on the part of the faithful subjects. Christian character grows in the secret place of prayer.” –Samuel M. Zwemer
Sampson. Powerful and strong. It is interesting that his strength was not really in his hair. His strength was in his heart. He was a Nazirite. The Hebrew word nazir means “consecrated” or “separated”. And it was by choice. His mother Manoah had dedicated him to this Nazirite vow before his birth. However, Hebrew law required that when he was old enough to understand, he recommit his life…permanently…to this vow. His heart belonged solely to his God. Until he gave it up to Delilah.
There’s a big difference between fearing God and being afraid. After receiving the Ten Commandments from God, Moses came down from the mountain and appeared before the Israelites. Witnessing thunder, lightning and the manifest presence of God caused them to tremble with fear that God would destroy them. “Moses said to the people, “Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of God will be with you to keep you from sinning’” (Exodus 20:20 NIV). Don’t be afraid but fear God? Sounds like a contradiction but it’s not. God doesn’t want us to be afraid of him; he invites us to approach him yet at the same time he wants us to be obedient to him, respect him and avoid the consequences of sin.
Does that describe your world? Are you discouraged? May be even a little depressed? Has life gotten the best of you? Is there seemingly little or no hope?
The Hebrew word for downcast – shachach – means to be bowed over… weakened …despairing…brought low.
Throwing a chair across the basketball court…Slamming a fist through a wall…The frustration when someone cuts you off in traffic…Those feelings you get when someone tells a trusted secret…How a child feels when dad doesn’t come home. When life isn’t the way we think it should be, it’s easy to get angry. God wired us that way.
A chicken “ain’t no” eagle.
Chickens are always looking down, cackling, while pecking around on the ground eating whatever they can find. It always amazed me that chickens can cackle and stuff their beaks at the same time! When they’re out of chicken feed, they move on to dirt and bugs. They’ll even eat their own—well you get the picture.
Something is going on.
Something good is happening right in the middle of your failure and pain.
The truth is still true, even if you’ve slipped and fallen. “For God is working in you…” You can feel it, can’t you—His power, Him calling your name? “If you leave God’s paths and go astray, you will hear a Voice behind you say, “No, this is the way; walk here” (Isaiah 30:21 TLB). That desire you have deep in your gut to keep returning home despite yet another mess up, that’s the Spirit of God drawing you in. You’re His child and like a loving parent His hands are cupped to his mouth and He’s calling out to you from the front porch of His heart. “Son, it’s time to come home now. Its time to get back in the fight.”
When we read the account of creation in Genesis, we find that at the end of each day God looked over His work and “saw that it was good”
Rarely will you see her in a Christmas play. Out of the four Gospels, only Luke even mentions her story. An eighty-four year old widow. A prophetess who “never left the Temple area, worshipping night and day with her fastings and prayers.” (Luke 2:37 MSG).
Recently, I was struck by the last phrase in verse 38. Anna was praising God and talking about the child to all “who were waiting expectantly for the freeing of Jerusalem” (MSG)
Anna’s words resonated in the ears of every man and woman who, with a “spirit of expectation”, had been waiting for the One who...
A manger. The baby Jesus. Mary. Joseph. A star.
No Christmas play would be complete without the three wise men.
Matthew records the amazing story of the “Magi” who “after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea…arrived in Jerusalem…” (2:1 NASV) They asked, “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews? For we saw His star in the east, and have come to worship Him.”...
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Tim Clinton, Ed. D., LPC, LMFT (The College of William and Mary) is President of the nearly 50,000-member American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC), the largest and most diverse Christian counseling association in the world. He is Professor of Counseling and Pastoral Care, and Executive Director of the Center for Counseling and Family Studies at Liberty University. Licensed in Virginia as both a Professional Counselor and Marriage and Family Therapist, Tim now spends a majority of his time working with Christian leaders and professional athletes. He is recognized as a world leader in faith and mental health issues and has authored over 20 books including Breakthrough: When to Give In, When to Push Back. Most importantly, Tim has been married 36 years to his wife Julie and together they have two children, Megan, who recently married Ben Allison and is practicing medicine in dermatology, and Zach, who plays baseball at Liberty University. In his free time, you’ll find him outdoors or at a game with family and friends.
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